BS Excuses Not to Do a Colorado Springs Boudoir Session or Denver Boudoir Session
I have been doing Colorado Boudoir Photography long enough to have heard EVERY kind of excuse out there NOT to do a Boudoir Session. So many times women are comparing themselves to the women on my website not realizing that they ARE those women on my website. Everyone you see are real people just like you who have their own insecurities too.
Yeah, they look amazing and sexy AF. And guess what, if you put your fears aside and came in to see me you will see you are a bombshell too! I’ve decided to make a post about the most common BS excuses to not do a boudoir session, and smash all of them.
#1 BS Excuse: ” I need to lose weight first”
BULLSHIT. Says who? Why? EVERY person has weight and body esteem issues. Boudoir is about empowerment. And empowerment and confidence is for everyone. I have photographed every size and body type and they are all equally stunning. Boudoir is a way to see yourself in a way you never have before, especially if you have only seen yourself through a scale.
#2 BS Excuse: “I’m not sexy”
Ok so this one makes me laugh because I feel the same way. I am TERRIBLE in front of the camera and make the worst facial expressions.
Don’t worry! I pose you from your hands to your toes. Literally. No one is models and even if they were I don’t just show up and click the camera. I set up the lighting, the outfit ,the pose, and your facial expression. Not to be cocky, but I am a PRO at posing and why I stand out in this industry. You are totally sexy, you just need me to walk you through it!
#3 BS Excuse: ” I don’t have anyone to give sexy photos to”
Yes, you do. YOU.
Boudoir is a gift for yourself, always. I have clients come in only doing this for a gift for a special someone sometimes, and come back to tell me that they discovered how much of a gift it actually was for themselves.
#4 BS Excuse: ” Im too old”
Whatever! I have photographed women even approaching their 70’s. Age is truly only a number. If you have waited this long already to celebrate your temple of a body, why wait any longer?
#5 BS Excuse: ” I can’t afford it”
We can always afford things if we really want it. For some maybe its a Starbucks in the morning, or keeping up with manicures, or beautiful tattoo sleeves, maybe you really like Kate Spade handbags. There is a lot of value in hiring a professional photographer who specializes in boudoir. I get it, and it can be expensive, but it is totally worth it and totally affordable and here is why: I offer payment plans. Whaaaatttttt!? I know right?!
You can book a date a year from now if you wanted to, and do pre-payments as low as you want. Or you can come see me now and split up your payments so you have that special gift by next Christmas etc. I want you to have this experience and if all up front is impossible, we work with you 100%.