Hey, lovely! If you’ve ever typed “what is boudoir photography” into Google and landed here, welcome—you’re in the right place.
Let’s start with the obvious: boudoir is not just about lingerie and sultry stares. Boudoir photography is about celebrating YOU—the real, raw, radiant you. If you’re gifting the pics to your partner or doing it 100% for yourself (which, yes please), a boudoir photo shoot is an experience every woman deserves.
So what exactly is it? What happens during a boudoir session? How much does it cost? What the heck do you wear? We’re diving into all of that (and yes, we’re also chatting about that beautiful black and white boudoir magic too).
Let’s get into it.
So, What Is Boudoir Photography?
Boudoir photography is a type of photo shoot that captures intimate, sensual, and empowering images of you. Think of it as a mix of self-love, artistry, and a dash of sass. And don’t worry—boudoir photos can be as bold or as soft as you want.
Some women want to go full bombshell. Others want cozy, cozy, cozy—oversized sweaters, morning light, soft blankets. Both are 100% boudoir.
This type of boudoir photography session is all about helping you feel confident, sexy, and strong. It’s about reconnecting with your body, owning your story, and walking away with stunning boudoir photographs that make you say, “Holy sh*t, is that ME?!”
Types of Boudoir (Yes, You’ve Got Options!)
When it comes to a boudoir shoot, you’ve got choices. That’s one of the reasons I love what I do—no two sessions are the same.
Let’s talk about a few popular styles:
Black and White Boudoir
There’s something timeless about black and white boudoir photos. They strip everything back (except your clothes, maybe 😉) and focus on emotion, light, and form. I wrote a full blog about why I’m obsessed with this style—go check it out after this!
Soft & Romantic
Think dreamy lighting, lace details, and natural makeup. These boudoir photos feel like Sunday mornings and love notes.
Bold & Empowered
Want to channel your inner siren? Bring on the smokey eye, heels, and edgy vibes. This style is all about making a statement—and dang, you’ll make one.
Lifestyle-Inspired
We can keep it super cozy and casual too. Oversized tees, messy buns, soft sheets. These feel relaxed and intimate in the best way.
What’s Included in a Boudoir Session?
Every boudoir session with me is designed to make you feel like the goddess you are. Here’s what’s included:
- A pre-shoot consult (so we can vibe and plan your dream session)
- Professional hair + makeup (because pampering is part of the fun)
- Access to my client wardrobe (yep, I’ve got options galore)
- A full boudoir photography shoot with guided posing (I’ll help every step of the way)
- Same-day photo reveal + the chance to build your dream album
Trust me, even if you’ve never done a boudoir photo shoot before, you’ll walk in nervous and walk out glowing. That’s the power of this experience.
What Is the Average Cost of a Boudoir Shoot?
Ah, the money question. Let’s talk about it!
An average boudoir shoot ranges anywhere from $400 for amateurs to over $3500 for experienced full service boudoir photographers,depending on your location, and what’s included. With me? Most clients invest around $1800-$3000 for their full experience.
Boudoir isn’t just about photos—it’s about transformation. This is an investment in you, and you’re worth every penny. Payment plans? Absolutely. I’ve got options to make it work for you.
(If you want a peek into what that investment looks like in more detail, check out the What’s Included page.)
How Do I Prepare My Body for a Boudoir Photo Shoot?
First of all: you don’t need to change a damn thing. Your body is already worthy of being celebrated.
But if you want a few gentle prep tips, I’ve got you:
- Hydrate: Glowy skin starts with water!
- Exfoliate + moisturize: A little body prep can make your skin feel extra smooth.
- Avoid tight clothes the day of: We don’t want pressure lines messing with your look.
- Skip the spray tan: Trust me on this. Natural skin tones photograph best.
- Get good sleep the night before: So you wake up feeling (and looking) your best.
And emotionally? Come in with an open heart. I’ll walk you through everything, from start to finish.
Do You Bring Your Own Clothes to a Boudoir Photo Shoot?
You totally can, and I always encourage you to bring pieces that make you feel good—think lingerie sets, bodysuits, cozy sweaters, even that button-down you “borrowed” from your partner.
But you also get access to my curated client wardrobe (sizes XS–3X and growing!). I’ve got pieces in lace, silk, mesh, and more.
Need inspo? Check out the full blog on what to wear to your boudoir session for outfit tips, client favorites, and even what to skip.
Why You Should Book a Boudoir Session (Like, Now)
Here’s the thing: there will never be a perfect time. Life is always busy. You’ll always wish you had more time to prep, or were a few pounds lighter, or had a different hairstyle. But here’s the truth?
You are already worthy of this experience.
Booking a boudoir photography session isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. It’s about showing up as you are and letting yourself be seen. The way you laugh, the way you glow, the fire in your eyes.
And babe, if you’ve made it this far in the post… maybe it’s time to shoot your shot. Or in this case, shoot boudoir photos that will change the way you see yourself.
Click here to book your boudoir session and let’s make magic happen.
TL;DR? Here’s Your Boudoir Cheat Sheet:
- What is boudoir photography? A celebration of your beauty, confidence, and power—captured in gorgeous photos.
- What’s included? Hair, makeup, wardrobe, guided posing, and a luxury experience start to finish.
- How much? Most clients invest $1,800-$3000 with flexible payment options.
- How do I prep? Hydrate, exfoliate, and show up exactly as you are.
- What to wear? Bring your faves or borrow from my studio wardrobe.
Let’s make this the year you fall in love with yourself again—because you freaking deserve it.
xo,
Melissa
